Is my boyfriend lying when it takes days for him to respond?

it is normally never neccesarry to take days to think of a way to explain yourself. Maybe a few minutes at the most 10 or 20 but not really even hours. and anybody that is lying or making up a story should be smart enough to think of it on the spot or as they are getting pulled into the conversation. talk to him about it. i see all the people come on here asking what to do and thats what the site is made for right? well if its about a relationship and you need to think if you should break up with them or do it with them or whatever its about, talk to them about it. Tell them how you feel. Seek to understand them and then to be understood. listen to what they have to say, then explain yourself. Let them know whats wrong. and then youll find the solution much easier. it sound incredibly difficult, but if you find the will to say 4 words it can make all the difference. "we need to talk" or the gentle way "i want to tell you something but i dont want you to get mad" then after the reasure that they wont if they get mad you can get mad at them and they will be dying to know anyway AND they will be expecting something slightly bad or heartbreaking. hope i helped! good luck!