Sunday, August 7, 2011

My newlywed wife wants me to move in with her parents?

We got married 3 months ago and had moved in my dad's place 4 months before that because we couldn't afford the bills. I got her a job at my dad's store so she could look for a better one meanwhile still making money and she had a lot of problems there because she would keep messing up (left the store's door unlocked twice over night) and my dad kept getting frustrated since he couldn't discipline her like a regular employee. 3 weeks after the marriage me and my wife had a fight about her job and I told her to quit and get a different job, but she decided to call her parents and they flew in the next day to take her with them to "visit" for a month. While there, she decided she wasn't coming back because she feels my dad doesn't like her and told me to move in her parents' house 2000 miles away instead. I don't want to move in her parents' house and she doesn't want to live with my parents and us getting our own place would mean I would have to stop or severely delay college so I can work full time to afford a living. Is it right for my wife to leave 3 weeks after a marriage and tell me that's she's not coming back and I need to move in with her parents' instead? Her room there is half the size of the room we have at my dad's place and I'll have to leave my car here and use her parents' extra car because I can't afford to drive or ship mine all the way across the continent. My gut keeps telling me I shouldn't do this. Her family doesn't even speak English at home and I don't understand 90% of the stuff they're talking about. I don't know what to do... we just got married and I've already considered divorce a handful of times because I just don't want to move in her parents' place.

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