Signs its time for a break from family?

You don't have to do anything at all. Going on any 'mode' is just you trying to get some sort of revenge. They don't really pay all that much attention to you, or you to them. Nothing else has to be done. When you get together just be polite. You won't change Anything by being punitive. There is no need for a break because, by their actions, you've already got one. He is the one who has to deal with their rejection, because they are his family. You did without them for many years before you met him, and you can continue to do without them. Your marriage and children will not die if you don't have their approval or cooperation. Stop nagging - it's a lot like chasing a guy who just isn't all that interested in you. Your responsibility is to be polite, and that's all.